
“WE’RE GOING TO PASS”
November 18, 2009
IT HAPPENS 99.9% OF THE TIME
THE REAL REASON FOR THE DECISION IS SELDOM REVEALED
ANYONE IN THE BUSINESS KNOWS THEY MUST TO BE PREPARED FOR THIS
Facebook, Tuesday, November 17, 2009.
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There’s always questions:
Was there something I could have done differently?
Did I upset the producer, or the stage manger?
Did I see too much into their praises?
Why did they bother to give me a night?
How could I have better prepared for their network?
Should I go in an entirely different direction, or pitch this concept to another network?
None are answered quickly – some are never answered. You gather the remnants of what used to be your life – which was blown up over the last several weeks preparing for this project – and you re-assemble it.
We parents understand what it feels like when we have a son or daughter that is going through a tough time and there’s very little we can do to help, other than “be there” for them.
Those of us in the performing arts understand this on a very different level. The unacceptance of an effort that took hundreds of hours to create is mind-numbing. So much creativity, and so many skills, arbitrarily dismissed - with no definitive reason given – is mentally and emotionally crushing.
But you’ve been here before, and in all likelyhood, will be here again. You’ve come this far. You now know many more people in the business than you knew eight months ago. You have supporters all over the country. One person’s opinion is no deterent. You move on.
Do as you have always done, son.
Stay the path.

Love,

Thanks daddio. Already working on a re-tooling of the show without the live aspect. At least the Buckeyes won.
GREAT!
Glad to hear it!
Ugh. My heart just sank.